I woke up this morning to my hubby jerking off in his sleep. He does this all the time. It is so very frustrating for me because I wanna have fun too!!! I have tried to reach over and take over the duties for him so as to join him, but he wakes up embarrassed and rolls over and begins snoring again. So I get left feeling aroused and alone, which inevitably leads me to rubbing my clit to a silent orgasm. Later on in the day, he will apologize (WTF??) for jerking off (if he remembers at all) and say he was having a really arousing dream about me....okay, then why don't you share it with MEEEEE??!! UGH! (rolling eyes)
I have noticed that he doesn't have near the sex drive that he once had in bed. He used to be able to stretch out a love making session for about an hour - now I'm lucky if he can go 15 minutes without being completely depleted. UGH! I have all these arousing fantasies about straddling him and moving my dripping pussy up and down his shaft, super slow and super sensually for as long as we can take it.... when I tried to do it???? He came in about five minutes and told me he just couldn't take any more. UGH!!! Of course, this is why most nights my fingers do a private dance to the rhythm of his snoring in order to satisfy MY raging lust.
If he would just stop wasting so much energy on jacking off in his sleep, maybe I would be getting a little more action during the week! I'm not suggesting that he HAS to have sex with me every night (although I would be totally game if he wanted that!) but it would be nice to get a go at least three nights a week... maybe four?!!
Oh god, I just realized I am turning into one of those dirty old women who walks around in a constant state of horniness and always complains about her husband not being in the mood - but I'm too young for that, right??? UGH! Better just to embrace it I guess!
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this post fascinates me. My experience with my wife - our situation - is exactly the opposite of yours. I've always believed that was just the state of things - men feeling as though they could have sex every night if their spouse was willing, women working diligently to conjure up headaches, backaches, exhaustion, or meloncholy just before bedtime.
It's nice to know there are women who are frustrated by their husband's sexual pace. You give me hope! I had begun to believe men and women's sex drives are wired to be opposite of one another, and that depresses me.
I like to think of sex as play, I think my wife thinks of it as perfect emotional bonding. And while we both feel some of each feeling, I would love for her to engage in it just as play more often.
Thanks for your thoughts!
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