Doing IT Right....

I have to admit that I have had my fair share of experiences with oral sex. I dated this one guy who could come to an orgasm just by coming down on me - no kidding, I didn't even have to touch him and he came! Did I mention that I am loud (I'm talking REALLY loud) in bed. That probably had something to do with it, although that man LOVED oral. What I really loved about him was that he was gentle, had GREAT timing, and really made sure I knew how much he loved it. It was fantastic! Probably some of the best orgasms of my life!

I also had a relationship with a guy who was absolutely HORRIBLE at sucking pussy. He could get down there, push and shove things at random intervals and usually left me swollen and miserable for days after. I don't know what he was thinking!! And when I asked him if he liked doing it, his reply was "not really, but I know you like it when I do it." WHAT?! Where did he ever get that idea???

So, as I was dreaming one day about having a man slave to eat my cunt whenever I felt the desire I decided I should put together a few pointers for my fantasy man. So, here we go...

1. Start slow. Women don't like to feel rushed and you spreading us eagle and cramming fingers into random holes just does not get us off. I'm not saying a good quickie isn't appreciated once and a while, but if you are eating pussy this is not a quickie moment. Be soft and gentle in your touch at first, there is plenty of time to apply additional pressure as the session continues.

2. Make sure you let her know you like what you are doing. Many times women don't like oral because they think the guy doesn't. We are pretty self conscious people you know! Put your lovers mind at ease by appreciating her body. Say something like "MMMM... you taste soooo good." or "God babe, I just can't get enough of you." If we know you like it, then chances are, we will like it too.

3. Don't attack the clit. Some guys get so crazy about getting the oral done that they jump at the clit from the moment they get south of the border. Chill out and slow down! That area is extremely sensitive and can actually hurt if too much pressure is applied too quickly. Start soft and slow by giving attention to the area around the clit and don't go poking at that button too soon. When you do get the clit hard and ready, don't just use one finger on it. That can result in too much pressure and lose the good sensations. Instead, use the flat of your tongue or two gentle fingers. I really like it when the two fingers catch the clit gently between them. That way the pressure is really on the skin around the clit and the clit gets lots of stimulation from all sides. Remember fellas, a clit is NOT like a cock - faster and harder is not always better.

4. When it comes to fingers, more is NOT always better. I dated this man who thought that cramming his fist into my wet pussy would actually be a good idea. Not necessary. Did you know that you can actually drive a woman crazy with one single digit? Yep. You don't have to stretch a woman to oblivion to bring her around. A nice steady in and out while you work her clit and prob with your tongue can drive her wild! Also, when it comes to fingers, make sure you are well groomed fellas. I can't tell you how HORRIBLE a rough edged nail or hang nail can feel down there. Calling all nail biters, STOP IT if you want to be good at oral sex!! (Also, it's really quite a disgusting habit any how.)

5. And finally - Work that Tongue! When you first start going down on your girl, keep the pressure of the tongue soft and gentle. Explore her slit, tease her clit gently, and find a slow steady rhythm that works for you. Don't try cramming your whole tongue down her pussy and expect her to swoon. Unless your a rock star with a tongue the size of a banana, that really isn't going to get her off on its own. Instead, tease the skin around her slit and allow her to feel your presence... don't forget to tell her how yummy she tastes.

So I hope I have given you fellas a few pointers on how to bring a smile to your girls face. And always remember, if you can eat pussy like a pro, ladies feel sooo much more inclined to return the favor. :-) Have fun!